And some more pictures.
I think he is about 11 here.
This was a couple weeks ago, opening some gifts we were able to send to him.
This is Oleg, or Aleshka as he's called.
We have recently begun the long process adopting this beautiful boy from [a country I've just learned I'm not supposed to name until the adoption is final]. He is kind, and good, and beautiful, and he belongs with us.
I wish I could say, ask any question you have. And yes, I'll try to answer your questions. But I have kind of a hard time talking about this, because it's really a massive walk in faith.
It feels like when Luca was born. People looked to us to answer questions - but what did we know? We were just the people God had asked to parent this child. We had so very much to learn, and our hearts on the line as we did so. So, one foot in front of the other.
A few questions I can answer. Frank and I have spoken often of adopting, but it was nowhere near front of mind. Around Easter, I saw Aleshka's picture on a random FB "friend's" page, and felt an immediate connection. We spoke of it, prayed about it, and asked people who know, about it.
He will technically age out on December 6, but we will have filed with Immigration by then. So then it's months of paperwork and visits to Ukraine before he's home.
The boys all know about Aleshka, we're just waiting for him to come home.
So please pray for us, and for Aleshka.
(If you haven't read it already, this is where he "lives" right now.)

13 comments:
Well. all I can say is he will "belong" to all of us.
Another grandchild. And so welcome.
You wrote this from your heart and with such conviction ~ that's all I need to accept yours and Frank's decision.
And I'm not altogether surprised. Your "likes" on FB nagged at me from the beginning.
A mother's instinct? I don't know. But I'm not altogether surprised.
So, so proud of your brave hearts. All my prayers!
Looking at his smile, all I could imagine while reading this was the look of absolute joy he'll inevitably have when he meets you, Frank, and his brothers for the first time. What a beautiful thing you are doing. Dad is right -- he belongs to us already!
Couldn't love you guys more. Absolutely bursting right now!
Aleshka. Come home!
What wonderful news!Look at him, another nephew to love. This is such a huge act of love and faith, my heart is bursting as well.
Dad behind me on his computer and yelled "Holy Shit!" but in an excited and happy voice.
"What? What?" I asked.
"Annie's back!"
Such joy :) Such. Joy.
That picture of Alex opening your gifts? That makes this all so real.
Last time I saw you - you and Frank were meeting with adoption guy - Leo told me he and Luca were learning Russian. I didn't connect the dots.
But I thought it was sooo cool and mentioned it to Dad.
Of course, Dad exclaimed, "Alex."
I asked Leo "How are you learning?"
"YouTube!"
So YouTube it is. And as I sit here typing, Dad is beginning the tutorial. :)
Oh man! Such wonderful news! So happy to start the Advent season with the best news ever. Love you and your family so so much!
Aleshka opening the package is so great! It makes it feel very real.
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